How To : Keep A Woman

So I recently recorded a video on How To : Keep A Woman. The video is about all my tips/advice on what a man can do to keep a woman. Even though I recorded a video I thought I'd write a blog post as wll. Here are all my tips/advice on how to keep a woman. Feel free to watch the video below after reading.

Tip 1 : Be financially stable.
Every woman loves someone who has there stuff together and she won't have to worry about paying for dinner, groceries, bills & etc…all the time.

Tip 2 : Don't be a liar.
If you lie to a woman we will eventually find out and it won't be pretty. Liars always get caught ! Be honest and truthful. That works best !

Tip 3 : Be adventurous, keep the relationship spicy !
A lot of guys tend to change once there in a relationship and keep doing the same thing over and over or not doing enough to show there woman hey let's enjoy ourselves together. Trying new things and trying to plan something new to do all the time will help upkeep a relationship.

Tip 4 : Be Confident.
Confidence is sexy ! It's as simple as that. If you're not confident in yourself then a woman is most likely not going to want to be with you because a confident man is a happy woman.

Tip 5 : Keep track of small things.
For example like she may like neon pink heels or a faux fur coat then get her something like that but whatever she likes that she may hint to you.

Tip 6 : Don't try to move too fast like Usain Bolt !
When you first enter a relationship that you want to last don't try to move too fast. That will just ruin things and stop you right in your tracks. Be nice and slow like a turtle and you shall win the race.

Tip 7 : Keep yourself well groomed !
This is pretty easy just keep yourself looking your best as you would always. Just because your now in a relationship and she's getting to know the true you doesn't mean you need to slack off. Continue with your upkeep of your appearance !

Leave your Loser Boyfriend

Over the years of my experience with dating I've learned a lot and have some tips to share with you girls out there(this can also work for guys). It's just that I'm a female so I'm writing this post towards mostly women but guys take advice too. :)

So I've been up since 4am, just woke up out of my sleep because I have so much on my mind and I just feel like expressing myself. I was asking a couple questions on Yahoo Answers regarding my relationship problems and etc. just to see what people would say. There answers were exactly what I expected, I'm happy I've left all my problems/troubles behind me. I realize over time that obsessing over a guy and trying to be in this long loving relationship is just not surreal. Sometimes I felt like I forced myself to love a guy I just didn't love and who was not really loving me, no matter how much he did me wrong I felt the need to stay in the relationship just so I wouldn't be single.
It's scary being single ? Why do most girls feel like that ? Because we've never actually been single long enough to enjoy the single life and realize what we should truly focus on is ourselves. I use to build up so much anger for my past relationship experiences and finally oneday I realized the best thing to do is move on in life, you will never be truly happy until the day you move on from the scumbag/jerk guy who you are dating. Now as far as cheaters go, cheaters can turn into compulsive liars. Once a guy cheats on you he will feel the need to start lying to you constantly and because you've been together for so long you'll feel like you NEED him which you truly DON'T. You will never NEED someone in life except yourself. Learn to love and respect yourself if you haven't already.

QUOTE OF THE DAY :
" Love yourself first before you love someone else. "

That quote is posted on my facebook. I felt the need to post that since I've been loving myself more than ever, it's time for a new start this year and I'm happy that I'm finally loving myself first more than ever. I'm tired of feeling all sad and stressed about everything, it usually has to do with a guy which for me now I just know I don't NEED guy to satisfy my happiness. All I need is to make sure I'm happy in myself first before I can accept love from any guy. You can't be with your boyfriend if all you have is hurt from previous relationships, you have to learn to let go of all those emotions that are kept inside of you. Some women like to cry it out but I would say it's best to eat it out..lol..instead of sobbing over a guy just start eating stuff you love, doing things you enjoy, focusing on what's important in your life(example : family/friends/your goals..etc).

Don't ever let anyone think they can CONTROL you or take your HAPPINESS away. As long as you love yourself and your a strong, confident person then you can best believe that you will find that right guy or girl for yourself. No need to go chasing for that person like you NEED to be in a relationship especially if your young, you have all the time in the world to meet the right person to build a bond with.

If you need any relationship advice or any advice go to the CONTACT page and write to me. Ask me anything you may need advice on. I will make a post answering any questions.

Tina's Advice #4

So I received a message on my youtube from a girl asking for help. She had sex with her boyfriend and she think she might be pregnant.

Here's her dilemma :

hey

can u help me plz

ok listen
2 weeks ago I had sex with my boyfreind without condom
I don't take the pill
but he was careful if u know what I'm sayin...
and 2 days before we had sex I had my last menstruation

but after a few days I felt a bit bad an tired and I still feel this way

I made a pregnancy test after skool today and it was negative
but I read that u should do it in the mornin and that u should do it at the first day ur mestruation fall out

Do u think that I still could be pregnant

My response :

I think you should wait a bit and re-take the test at a clinic. Doctors will always know so the best way is to get tested at a hospital. If you don't see your menstrual cycle for awhile then definetly get tested again. Pregnancy tests can test negative at first sometimes or you can even try Clear Blue Pregnancy Test.

Tina's Advice #3

Day 13 of Project 365

imerolin is seeking advice from her previous situation again. This is an update on what's going on. This is what she wrote me :

hey Tina.
Thanxs for the advice now this guy is back chatting with me but i just do not understand why he keeps going on and off then he remembers me after a long timehe is so mad at me because he wants to see me on webcam naked which i find like he is only using me .i refused so he is mad.he claims to love me but i guess he wants to make his own pleasures all he looks for gals online to view them naked which is a big problem.
The other one we just chat but his cousin claims to be in canada for a visit and i wud love to meet him but he is like 2hours away.he seems nice and hasnt done anything or said anything taht makes me feel uncomfortable.i need final advice. about tall this.Imerolin

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♡ Tina's Advice ♡


You should NEVER go naked on webcam for any guy ! You barely know the guy yet so this is out of the question, NEVER do it ! He seems to be trying to take advantage of you.


Here's my advice for you this time :


Completely stop talking with the first guy who asked you to go nude. That alone should show you what he wants from you, pleasure online so imagine in person he's gonna want you to probably go naked in person too if he's moving so quickly with you online.


The other guy maybe you can continue to pursue him but this online dating with the guys you've written to me about I don't like it for you. I think you should try dating guys around your area or that live in Canada but if you still wanna date online LOSE the first guy and go with the second and try to pursue that if that's what you really want.

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Tina's Advice #2

Day 12 of Project 365



♡ Relationship Advice ♡

I got an email from a subscriber of mine on youtube asking for advice. This is what she wrote me :

Hey gal,
Iam imerolin the gal on youtube.I have this big problem and i would like you to make a video about it.I first met this guy on line who happened to be bestfriend to my friend who is called James.He was arab he added me we started chatting he told me by then he was having problems with his galfrend and they broke up.I became his galfrend i trusted him thought he was a player so i faked myself and made up emails.he founs out it was me and he he as so mad that he told me to delete him but now on facebk we talk and his cousin is my friend and this guy asks me if i have a crush on the cousin.could he be jelous?
After that i have another guy i met on youtube he is arab too he said he was single i was scared to trust him coz i didnt want to be hurt again but i fell for him but he has been acting weird he comes on line says nothing i email him he never responds he hasnt been on yahoo and msn for like 2months.I do all the calling he has never called or texted me he is in malaysia am in Canada.am so hurt coz he lied to me he loves me .am confussed

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♡ Tina's Advice ♡


That is just too much drama in one, here's my advice to you :


Online a guy can say anything but when you meet him in real life it's a different story. Online dating sometimes works out but it's very rare ! What you seem to be going through in your situation is not worth your time, you shouldn't be dealing with guys who aren't replying to you, he's most likely lost interest.
Ask yourself these questions :


Are you ever gonna visit him ? Or is he gonna visit you ?


Try dating around where you live in Canada, leave online dating alone for awhile and see what's out there in the real world or if your looking for a guy online make sure he's in Canada at least that way you could both meet up in a public place(make sure to bring a friend/family member just incase).


Long distance relationships usually work if you've met the person first and build a connection which in your case it's not that way. These guys you wrote to me about don't seem to be too interested in you so hopefully you can take my advice.


I hope my advice helped you. ◕‿◕

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If anyone else is seeking advice click the Contact page to contact me.

Tina's Advice #1

♡ Relationship Advice ♡

I got an email from a subscriber of mine on youtube asking for advice. This is what he wrote me :

SimplyChasse from Youtube

Question

Why do girls keep going after guys that treat them like shit, and end up feeling bad when they can't find a good guy only to go back to another guy that mistreats them. Why don't they learn to see the ones around them, also vice versa because it can happen both ways for girls to guys, and guys to girls

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♡ Tina's Advice ♡

Good guys finish last..it really is true, most times in life a girl has to go through about 9 bad apples before that 1 good apple comes along and it goes both ways as you stated. For someone to realize how mistreated the guy or girl is being to them they have to meet a couple more that mistreats them before realizing they deserve better and the one they should of been with was in front of them all along.


I tried so many times to change this guy I dated but he made me feel so hurt, I wish I knew then what I know now. I wish I knew then to move on and know that I deserved better. I kept telling myself he wasn't hurting me and that it was actually me making him mistreat me cause I was doing something wrong but in fact I was doing fine in the relationship he just didn't appreciate me as much as he should of.


The same guy has claimed he's now changed and called me alot telling me he misses me and he never realized what a great young lady I was until he lost me. It's too late now, I would never put myself in a situation like that again.


Sometimes you can't tell someone to stop dating someone that's mistreating them, they have to find out for themselves because living and learning is what life is about.


I hope my advice helped you. ◕‿◕

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